So I’ve been wondering (and I hope I don’t come off as rude if I ask such a personal question) but you always say you process things you went through while writing, like the miscarriage in ORW or some scenes of anxiety and such in Tony scentric fics and I just wanted to ask (sorry for my language here) what he’ll have you been through and how did you survive? 😳 I have huge problems with an inferiority complex and you had all these things going on and you can just go on? Idk, I mean wow!

not-close-to-straight:

I survived because I had to.

That’s all there is to it.

When you go through things that seem like they’re going to break you, you can either let them break you, stop right there and let it all overwhelm you, or pick yourself back up, slap a bandage over that bitch and keep right on going.

I chose to keep going.

Survival is the number one reason you can get through things that are bad. If you choose to survive, then you’ll come out all the better for it in the end. As a survivor myself, I applaud Kara and everyone else who has gotten through and become better, stronger and much more awesome than those who tried to bring us down.

Lots of love and support to all my fellow survivors. 💗💛💙💜💚❤