So I’ve been wondering (and I hope I don’t come off as rude if I ask such a personal question) but you always say you process things you went through while writing, like the miscarriage in ORW or some scenes of anxiety and such in Tony scentric fics and I just wanted to ask (sorry for my language here) what he’ll have you been through and how did you survive? 😳 I have huge problems with an inferiority complex and you had all these things going on and you can just go on? Idk, I mean wow!

not-close-to-straight:

I survived because I had to.

That’s all there is to it.

When you go through things that seem like they’re going to break you, you can either let them break you, stop right there and let it all overwhelm you, or pick yourself back up, slap a bandage over that bitch and keep right on going.

I chose to keep going.

Survival is the number one reason you can get through things that are bad. If you choose to survive, then you’ll come out all the better for it in the end. As a survivor myself, I applaud Kara and everyone else who has gotten through and become better, stronger and much more awesome than those who tried to bring us down.

Lots of love and support to all my fellow survivors. 💗💛💙💜💚❤

TMC Fanfiction – The TMC 12 Days of Christmas

themusechronicles:

Hey everyone! So I haven’t really had a lot of time to do much writing and posting for my fanfic stuff, but I do want to try and do my 12 days of Christmas thing this year. 

My 12 Days is a set of 12 drabble/one shots based around the winter holidays that I post from December 13 – December 25. I want to take prompts for them this year, since I didn’t get to do it last year. I’m open to quite a few fandoms, so I’m accepting for various things. If you have any prompts, inbox/submit a post. If you’d like to read some of my stuff, please check out my TMC Fanfiction link. 

Eclipse Hall | ciitylxghts

ciitylxghts

His fingers traced every inch of Peter they could reach, desperate to familiarise themselves with the man he’d been craving for months. It never took Tristan this long to get what he wanted, but that had only made him want this all the more. “Mm.” He groaned against Peter’s lips, smirk on his own as he looked up at him. “I think I’m ready. Depends on just ‘ow good you are tonight, doesn’t it?” Teasing as always, words laced with sarcasm. He laughed at the compliment, flushing under his makeup, hand coming to move over the bruises Peter was leaving on him. Always one to want to please, he did as he was told and raked his nails against the man’s flesh again, harder this time, and his body shivered as Peter finally touched him. “Fuck. I never want to feel anythin’ else ever again.”

Peter gave a little smirk, the look predatory as he took in Tristan’s form. He teased his fingers around the other man, humming softly. “I bet you make the prettiest sounds.” he practically purred, eyes shimmering between their natural blue and the searing red of his wolf. “Be a dear and make them for me while I ravage you?” he inquired, nuzzling at the dip of Tristan’s hip as he finally wrapped his hand securely along the hard length, stroking it slowly. 

not-close-to-straight:

I just got an ask requested to be answered privately about how to deal with a negative comment on a fic and I thought I’d answer it in a post because idk how private answers work with long messages. 

(I won’t tag you but you know who you are) 

About Negative Commenters on fics::

I’d tell them to fuck off and go write their own story and feel free to block you on their way out the door so they don’t accidentally read any of your fics again.

You don’t need readers like that.

Or you know, less aggressively because maybe you aren’t as big of a bitch as I am, you could just delete the comment and move on.

The problem is, there’s always someone out there that has a personal issue with a specific character. When I was writing Pirates Heart I got hate mail because so many anti-Steve people wanted Bucky and Tony to run away together and leave Steve behind. I get nasty comments about writing Tony as the hero of my stories. I get told my AU’s are super out of character and terrible writing.

Someone will always have shit-all to say about anything, and if you take it personal it will ruin your whole writing experience, but I understand how difficult it is to let those things go.

Delete the comment, and if it was via tumblr, block them. You don’t need readers like that and if that’s how they are going to comment, just block them because they will probably do it again. You don’t have to feel bad about basically booting a negative person out the door, I literally do it at least once a day for various reasons ranging from a shitty comment on my writing to them reblogging something ick.

If it was on AO3, turn on “comment moderation” and “disable anonymous comments” function because then not only do you get to approve/reject comments before anyone else sees them, but then only registered AO3 users can comment on your work anyway

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from writing online, its that everyone is super brave about their comments when they can hide behind anonymous and once they can’t hide behind it anymore, they shut the hell up. Turning off your “anon asks” on Tumblr takes care of alot of bullshit too.

Does this help? Idk if this helps. 

I hate people who leave negative comments, they piss me off and are promptly blocked on my blog, I have zero tolerance.

I’ve literally never left a comment that wasn’t along the lines of “THIS WAS AMAZING” because why would you take the time to ruin someones day like by leaving a negative comment?

Rude and no body needs that shit.

alibraryofmemes:

Alpha:

“I can smell that you’re in heat.”
“You’re such a cute little omega.”
“Here, let me take care of you.”
“I can’t wait to have kids with you.”
“You’re sick, go back to bed omega.”
“Let your alpha take care of you.”
“You look lost omega.”
“I promise, I’m not like other alpha’s.”
“God I want to breed you.”
“You shouldn’t be walking alone omega.”
“I will always protect you my omega.”
“You’re irresistible when you’re in heat.”
“Did your heat just start?”
“I need you my little omega”
“I’m an alpha, you’re a omega, it was meant to be!”
“I’m an alpha, not your captor.”
“You’re so hard to resist.”
“I want to claim you as mine.”
“You shouldn’t be stressing yourself out like this, I’m your alpha, I’ll take care of you.”
“I don’t want to be just any alpha, I want to be your alpha.”
“I can’t wait to see you carrying my pups.”

Omega:

“I think I might be in heat.”
“I’m an omega, not your prisoner.”
“I need you to claim me.”
“You can’t claim me yet!”
“I need my alpha.”
“Being in heat is killing me.”
“You’re my alpha, I should be the one taking care of you.”
“I want kids with you.”
“Please breed me!”
“I need you to be my alpha.”
“A gang of alpha’s was harassing me earlier today.”
“I just want to find a nice alpha.”
“I couldn’t care less about finding an alpha.”
“I’m ready to be bred.”
“I’m not ready to be bred.”
“I’m a living being! Not just a set of holes to fuck!”
“Are you sure you’ll still love me when I’m carrying your pups?”
“Alpha are you in a rut right now?”

TMC Fanfiction – The TMC 12 Days of Christmas

Hey everyone! So I haven’t really had a lot of time to do much writing and posting for my fanfic stuff, but I do want to try and do my 12 days of Christmas thing this year. 

My 12 Days is a set of 12 drabble/one shots based around the winter holidays that I post from December 13 – December 25. I want to take prompts for them this year, since I didn’t get to do it last year. I’m open to quite a few fandoms, so I’m accepting for various things. If you have any prompts, inbox/submit a post. If you’d like to read some of my stuff, please check out my TMC Fanfiction link.